I got this off the bulletin board… It’s a good read, I believe… and yes, kacuks… I think it’s spot on…
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DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.
She said, “How do I know if I married the right person?”
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, “It depends. Is that your husband?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How do you know?”
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind. Here’s the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love… Because it’s happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.” Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling is love is easy. It’s a passive and spontaneous experience.
But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It’s the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, “Did I marry the right person?” And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is then marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT’S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It’ll NEVER just
happen to you. You can’t “find” LASTING love. You have to “make” it day
in and day out. That’s why we have the __expression “the labor of love.” Because
it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It’s a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable…you can “make” love.
Love in marriage is indeed a “decision”… Not just a feeling .
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It’s been an interesting week… I was hospitalised on my best friend’s birthday pending surgery on my ex-bf’s birthday (which was on the next day) which so happens to coincide with the first anniversary of my worst breakup… how more interesting can that get? Haha…
Anyways… I’m not a fan of needles… I remembered when I was 13… we were supposed to go for a medical checkup… requirement for camp… and I remembered running all over the place, kicking and screaming all the profanity that I could think of… just so that they wouldn’t stick the needle and draw out my blood…. in the end, I had to do it anyway (I was bribed with a pair of rollerblades)…
It was different this time around… I braved myself to face the damn thing (I did it before a couple of years back anyway)… and got thru it without too much drama… and that was just for the blood test…
The surgery… couldn’t say much about it… I was knocked out by the anesthesia… altho it did take them a while to put me to sleep… that’s coz I didn’t want to sleep… haha… like… they injected me with something that made the room spin… but I enjoyed it so much that I didn’t want to close my eyes… then they put the oxygen mask on me… i almost choked coz I could feel my throat constrict… and I heard the anesthetician ask what’s going on, why hasn’t she gone under, this is a disaster… since I couldn’t be bothered to listen to his blabbering, I finally closed my eyes… Game over…
When I came to…. I learnt my lesson, that’s for sure… when the room spins, close ur eyes and sleep… I suspect they might have upped the dosage… so I woke up feeling horribly nauseous… and those who know me well will know that I hate the puking feeling…. but my body overpowered my will to not puke… not that there was anything to puke anyway coz they made me fast the night before… no food or water 8 hours before surgery… but still… the feeling of my ears burning and wanting to fall off my head is something I really don’t enjoy… I can’t imagine having to face that everyday should I be unfortunate enough to go thru morning sickness in the future… urgh~…
So.. I stayed hospitalised for 3 days in total… I didn’t tell many people about the surgery… I didn’t tell my family even… so I had the most peaceful 3 days of my life (bar the poking and prodding needles)… plus, I’ve got the whole week off to recuperate and rejuvenate… aaaaa… bliss…
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To my girls who shared the same fate…. this one’s for all of us…
FORGET HIM
Forget his name
Forget his face
Forget his kiss
His warm embrace
Forget the love that you once knew
Remember he has someone new
Forget him when they played your song
Remember when you cried all night long
Forget how close you once were
Remember he has chosen her
Forget how you memorised his walk
Forget the way he used to talk
Forget the things he used to say
Remember he has gone away
Forget his laugh forget his grin
Forget the dimples on his chin
Forget the way he held you tight
Remember he’s with her tonight
Forget the time that went so fast
Forget the love that moved, it’s past
Forget he said he’d leave you never
Remember he’s gone forever.
Thanks gate for sharing this with me… and thanks eclaire for sharing this with gate… so now I’m sharing this with all my girls… may we find the strength in each other to carry on… Much love~…
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I’m puzzled… Over these past few days, my good friend’s ex-fiancee messages me and tells me how much he loves her and trying to convince me that the real cause of the break up is that his shoulders cannot cope carrying the burden of his family (i.e. medical bills and what knots)… trying to dispell the belief that the cause of the break up was in fact he cheated on his girl…
Ok ok ok… it’s actually a long story abt this 3rd party person… apparently she’s just a friend who was a shoulder to cry on and bla bla bla… but they got pretty close over the months and of course the (now ex) fiancee got pretty suspicious [who wouldn't, right?]… after a confrontation, he promised her that he will cease contact with this 3rd party… this was apparently months ago… but… behind my girl’s back, they still kept in touch… smsing and calls in the middle of the night… until one day, bam~! Busted~! Thus, the break up…
Lots of tears shed, I can tell you… on both sides…. one side pissed off that he "cheated"… one side pleading innocence… and here comes the bit where I get puzzled…
Today… he said to me that I misconstrued the comment she left on his page the day after V-day (to which I responded that I now know who the "other woman" is)… and that she’s just a friend… bla bla bla… nothing more than that… his love is only for the (now ex) fiancee… and then he told me that he had a big fight with this 3rd-wheel recently (could’ve been last nite - God knows)… coz apparently she confessed to him that she had feelings for him… which I suppose started this whole yahoo… and when he told her that she was just a friend/buddy in whom he like to confide his problems to… she accusses him of playing her out… toying with her feelings and such… in the end he told her to leave him alone… ok… then as I was abt to start this piece here, I checked out his FS page coz there were a few updates… "Added new friend - (3rd-wheel) - 2 hours ago"… I assumed in his anger, he deleted her as his friend at some point between the fight and restoring her as a friend… then… "Edited featured friend - 1 hour ago"… and when I looked… there she was… his FIRST featured friend… and when I checked her page out, HE was her first featured friend…. so… do we need convincing that there’s nothing happening between the two??? Like honestly….?
Anyways… here’s a question… if you were to love someone so much, no doubt you can tell them anything and everything (even if it’s about them), right? And if that person loves you that much back, they will surely understand, sympathise with the things you go through with them and perhaps make adjustments… right? I mean, nobody is perfect… everyone has flaws… but you’ve pledged yourself to that person… promising to marry them one day… and YET, you can’t communicate with them??? You can’t tell them anything and everything??? And worse… you turn to another person (more often than not, that person is of the opposite sex)… and you expect your current relationship to work out? Like seriously….? Even if you’re married and you do the same thing… that’s exactly it, the same thing… no difference… so then why pledge yourself to one person for better for worse, for richer and poorer, in sickness and in health, till death do you part…? Might as well keep your options open and yahoo~…
It’s ok to have friends of the opposite sex… but if you are in a relationship and you really want it to work, mind the rules of the game… try not to cross that line… coz really… everybody will get hurt… nobody wins…
In any case… I wish everyone all the best in whatever sort of relationship they’re in… may you all be happy and blessed… 
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The past few days have been pretty sad for me… History has a habit of repeating itself… altho it didn’t happen to me… it saddened me that my good friend had to go thru what I did with my latest ex… what made the situation more sad was that they broke their engagement two days before the world celebrates Love (or rather the notion of being in love)…
To make matters worse… the radio station that accompanied me to work this morning spoke of the worst of topics… "Signs that tell you that your partner is cheating on you"…. like hello~… of all days… my instant thoughts went back to this dear friend of mine and how she would’ve felt if she was tuned into that station as well (which turned out, she was listening)…
So anyways… just for the heck fun of it… I made up my list based on my very own experience… and I think my dear friend would agree with me… and if you feel like you’d like to add to it, feel free…
Signs that tell you that your partner is cheating on you:
1) He/she doesn’t leave his/her phone lying about and takes calls in the other room or somewhere else away from you
2) The sms inbox is clear
3) He/she seems to lose patience with you… every little thing you say/do seems to tick him/her off (this is a very big tell-tale sign)
4) You can tell by the way he/she talks over the phone - the difference between talking to a friend and someone special
5) He/she says that you can’t come by his/her office anymore coz the boss is watching (in actual fact that the scandalous armore works in the same place!)
6) If they ever say that that person "is just a friend" - walk away from it all… never ever trust that phrase…
7) They tell you that they are in one place, when in actual fact that they’re in another (and you know it coz either someone told you or you can just tell that they’re lying)
 Your partner refers to you as one of their "commitments" (when in actual fact, you’re just another entry on his "To Do" list)…
9) If they propose marriage to place rose-tinted glasses over your eyes but no rock, no solid "commitment" to say that they’re really serious abt it… all words… all fluff…
10) This one’s my personal favourite - should they ever throw the words "Don’t you trust me?" and "There’s no STORI between you and me anymore?"…. ladies, the answer is always and forever "NO"… especially if your man does not spend every spare minute he has with you…
Guys… if you are in a relationship… be warned… if your girl loves you to death, they have that "girlfriend instinct"… and more often than not, it’s never wrong… so think before you hurt them with your lies and cheating ways… but if you so dare to continue, justice will prevail… what goes around comes back around…
What do you get out of cheating on your partners anyway??? An ego boost? Perhaps… The thought of someone else in this world who actually likes you flatters you so much that you would give up a solid relationship (and not to mention friendship)… Risk taker… yeah… high risk, high return, they say… but how much of that is true? I mean, if you bet on the right horse (or in this case, "bitch") then ok lah… but if you didn’t (which in most cases is the case)? Start calling your ex and complain abt how you are suffering in your relationship? The one that you yourself walked away from in order to have a "better" life with the other? Errrmmm… as I said… justice will prevail… what goes around, comes around…
My take on this is simple… if you so want the other person, then end your existing relationship… why cheat? Why the need to lie? Your partner has feelings too, you know… and you can’t blame them if they hate you coz you cheated on them (you betrayed their feelings - and that is unforgivable, if not forever, for a long long long time)… and do not place the hope that they will continue being your friend (even if it’s the humane thing to do - from one human being to another human being, right)… the humane thing that YOU should’ve done was be honest in the onset… right from the start… you don’t have feelings for your partner anymore, then say so… you fell in love with someone else, say so…
Maybe should tell you the STORI… (S)incerity, (T)rust, (O)penness, (R)ealising, (I)nterdependence… this concept is pretty much self-explanatory… and it was taught to me and my latest ex by his father at an adventure camp a good 13 years ago… and we swore that we would live by it coz it encompasses every aspect of our lives… our job, our relationship with people, our family, etc etc… the ironic bit of it all… the son of the trainer doesn’t live by the principles taught by his very own father…
Although it didn’t work out between me and the ex, I still haven’t given up or forgotten the concept… I still live by it… and I must say that it’s working for me… I am blissfully happy in the relationship that I am in right now (No lies, No secrets… just love)… we’re pretty much joined at the hip… every spare minute is spent together doing the things we love…
Anyways… what I’m trying to get at is the whole STORI concept… if you practice the concept in its entirety, you will be happy… be Sincere with your partner in wanting to make the relationship work for you… Trust each other (but of course, not to a point of being fooled)… be Open with each other (no secrets, talk to each other… be honest with each other… and communicate~!!)… grasp the objective of being in the relationship and work towards Realising them… and of course, you are not alone in the relationship and that you are Interdependent (depend on each other)…
This topic sucks… It depresses me… coz it reminds me of my own past the whole blardy 13 years of it… and I really really feel for my girl there…. she really didn’t have to go through all this… cukup la I sorang… but what to do… life is unfair…
Going totally off-tangent… and being totally ironic to this topic… Happy Valentine’s Day, everyone… may you be blessed with all the love in the world~… *hugs*
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I dare say… this party will be the most memorable family party ever… It was to celebrate my aunt’s golden birthday… and her 30th wedding anniversary… the theme of the night was fitting ler… "Black, with a touch of Gold"… but then again… that’s our (us cousins) signature colour…
So as usual… us cousins got together… and this was totally a rush job… and we put on a dance medley… which consisted of Pussycat Dolls’ "Sway", Beyonce’s "Crazy in Love", Hindi "Say Shava Shava" and the legendary P. Ramlee’s "Bunyi Gitar"… If I get the opportunity to steal the video clip and put it on bolt.com, I’ll do that…
What made it so special for me was that Allen (and Derrick) joined us on the dancefloor… We cousins put it this way la… "Welcome to the family"… hehehe… something like an induction la… what better way to do it that to shake that booty in front of 150 people! Hahahahaha… anyways… they were game… and we all had fun… the audience had fun… so mission accomplished… hehe…
Next mission… salsa!!! yes??? Hehehehehe… slowly lah… one conversion at a time… I’ve already gotten him bitten by the bowling bug… and his game is better than mine (damnit!!!)… to convert him into a salsa-holic is gonna take a bit more effort… hehe… but at the moment, that conversion can wait…
Weddings… this is the year for weddings… the Chinese would say its auspicious as the number 8 is apparently a very good number… numerology… something i cant quite grasp… but anyways… recently went to a classmate’s wedding… it was indeed beautiful… and it was a good time for me to catch up with my schoolmates… made me realise how much I miss them and how bad a friend I am to not really keep in touch… well, I shall endeavour to keep in touch… and maybe meet up for coffee once in a way…
But the thing about weddings is this… you start getting ideas… on how yours would turn out… and yeah… I think I’ve decided that mine will be riding the fine line between conventional and modern… as much as I want it to be a party (much like my aunt’s anniversary party)… I guess I’ll have to settle with something in between… just so that the old foggies won’t keel over the fact that we’re not following customs and stuff… afterall, a wedding is the parents’ affair… it’s all about pleasing them… 
All I can say is… it’s gonna be an interesting journey… it’s already been very interesting so far… and I am blessed… I am at peace everytime I’m with him (that really is a blessing)…
Haha… speaking of journeys… Allen and I are planning to go down my memory lane sometime end-April, early-May… Melbournians! Heads up! We’re coming your way!!! We’re hoping that we wont be tied up at work… or be called away for duty… that would definitely be a bummer…
Till the next update…
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"Beyond the Blue Yonder - Flying the High Skies and Diving the Deep Seas" — that was the theme for the family’s November Bash 2007… different than previous years, we decided to hold our party at Holiday Villa as opposed to home… convenient and cheaper in a sense… don’t have to cook, clean, move furniture… everything was taken care of…
It was a fun event lah… almost everyone was dressed in blue (according to the theme) that night… as you can see from the few photos I have in the gallery, even my eyes turned blue… hehehehe… everyone who came got little blue door gifts… everyone had a go at karaoke….. and we had the Paperdolls perform for us… hahahaha…. that was fun fun fun… the boys were a little horrified tho… Buck and Gate hid in one corner hoping that the "girls" didn’t jump on them and drown them in their fake boobies… hahahaha… goodness…. I don’t know how we’re gonna top that for next year’s bash….
So that was the bash… after that have been pretty much bz with work… and bowling training… and now on to house-hunting… so I suppose the next few months, that’s the routine lah… work, bowling, house-hunting… maybe throw in a few movies and nice dinners… hehe…. see how lah…
Not much else to tell… everything else is pretty much ordinary… same old same old… so till the next update… *muah*
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The topic "Upgrade" explains pretty much all the aspects of my life at the moment…
Although it may sound a bit crude… I find it absolutely hilarious to say the least… my ex was relating a story to me abt ppl asking him what happened between us and stuff… and he said something to the effect of me "upgrading from a 1.8 to 2.0"… but that was months after we broke up… so… let’s have that on record, huh…
Speaking of the ex… well… what goes around comes around… and wow, I didn’t expect it to go around so fast… and the things he comes to me with regarding his relationship… what can I say, huh… I have nothing to say… live by the choice you made? I think we all have to do that… live by the choices we make… life is about making choices… no two ways about that…
Speaking of choices… ahaha… I made a choice recently… although it cost us a fair bit, it is something that I think I can live with… what is important is that I’m happy with the choice I made… which I am… following that, things have been going great… altho it’s only been 7 weeks (?), it feels more like it’s been 7 years… and I must say on that front, I’m blissfully happy…
So in terms of upgrading my personal life… yes, I’ve upgraded from being single to being in a relationship… further upgrades will be done in due time… 
In terms of life in general… Hari Raya showed another upgrading measure… where this year, I’ve upgraded myself to the ranks of those giving out "duit raya"… an expensive upgrade… but it makes everyone else (especially the younger cousins) happy… that’s enough for me to enjoy my Hari Raya…
Hari Raya this year was short and sweet… drove back to Alor Setar… much has changed in 13 years (as you would expect, of course)… we had our usual, LOUD event… it is expected when all the cousins gather together… and we had the complete set this year too…. so all the more fun!
Fun was shortlived when I had to fly back to KL on Raya Day itself… Margot (dance instructor) and Paul (husband) flew into KL on Sunday and we (Allen and I) played city tour guide for them… most of our tour were little impromptu turns/stops/detours… depending on the route we took around the city… if there so happened to be an interesting spot, we’d stop for photos… so we did the Palace, Petaling Street, KLCC (from the outside), Sungai Wang… hehe… lots of fun… took them to Sri Devi for roti canai and thosai for breakfast the instant they landed in KL… The Curve (Sunday) and Souled Out (Monday) for dinner… it was an experience for them as much as it was for us… beautiful!
Car upgrades… Oren now has a Yaesu FT-8800R mobile rig set fitted in her… what is that, you ask? It’s for Amateur Radio… at the moment it’s being used to chit-chat on the frequency… making new friends with people all across the Klang Valley… hehe… apart from that, we’ve also put a Pivot Raizen Voltage Stabiliser and grounding kit… mainly to eliminate the whining sound the mobile rig causes when we accelerate Oren… and everything else just falls into place… the headlamps don’t dim when the air-cond compressor kicks in anymore… with Oren being promptly serviced and is well looked after, she’s running pretty awesome right now… and I have to thank my honey for seeing to all of that… Next upgrade: K&N drop-in air filter, ICE and rims/wheels? See how~…
Aaah… so much has happened… and so much more to look forward to… taking it one step at a time…
Till the next upgrade… ooops… update… *muah*
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All I can say is… God is great~…
What goes around certainly comes around… but somehow God was also very kind to me…
You see… once upon a time, I walked away from someone… and whatever happened after that is history as well… but yes, history came back and bit me in the arse… but I’m not complaining…
Anyways… this time, again, I walked away from someone whom I loved dearly… he was my best friend of 12 years… and also my "loved one" for 2… I thought everything was going ok… he proposed to me and stuff… so I was kinda excited abt it… but I only found out later that he actually lost that loving feeling over the past 6 months and one of his ways to "get it back" was perhaps propose to me… and see if those feelings came back… but by the looks of it, it didn’t… coz he started hanging out/being in contact with a girl from his office… and I suppose they fell for each other… so yes… he made that choice… and I chose to walk away (despite him telling me he wanted me to remain his friend) with a heart so broken that no amount of Uhu glue or Scotch tape can put it back together… please tell me, dear world, how could I stay, even as a friend to someone such as this?
Anyways… so yes… I walked away from a 12-year friendship… there is no point for me to be friends when I know deep inside me I cannot trust such a person anymore… and even if I am his friend, I won’t be a sincere friend… so there is no point.
That is the "Lost" part of the story…
The "Found" part of the story is even sweeter… you see, while all that drama was happening… I was at my lowest point on a certain someone’s birthday (that first someone I walked away from lah)… so as I usually do every year (in the last 5 years), I wished him a Happy Birthday via sms… expecting the usual curt "Thank you" that I receive every year (probably deserved a curt answer for what I did to him lah)… but somehow this year… he decided to "chat" with me… and the best part of it was… he asked if we could hang out one day… which we did… and I had sooo much fun… and his presence back in my life just lifted my spirits… and i’m just so overwhelmed right now, that I could cry~… sigh~…
Oh, twisted fate… but thank God for that~…
He’s been really really sweet to me… he’s loved by everyone in my family… and he knows what’s going on in the family… so he’s been really sweet to sit down with me and give me a few words of encouragement and wisdom(?)… but yeah… it’s been 5 years since we spoke to each other… so we have heaps of catching up to do… just knowing that he’s back has brought some sanity in this insane life of mine… so I’m content with that at the moment…
Anyways… am gonna go on a "find-myself" trip to Bangkok in a couple of weeks… hopefully when I return, I’ll be all refreshed and ready to get back on this rollercoaster that I call my life~…
Till the next update~… signing out~.
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I’ve left this blog idle for too long, I think… not that I don’t have anything to share… I have plenty to share… but yeaa… sigh~… nvm…
Ok… last blog… February… this is now… June… yikes~
The past few months have been pretty hectic… with courses (a few) and work (not much of that, tho)… but satrianeoclub.net has kept me pretty busy… although at the time, I quit the committee… I still ended up organising almost every event… so after a series of discussions and negotiations… I’m back… I am now their Head of Events… as much as it fits with what I’ve been doing around the club, certain quarters were not too happy about me taking up the post as that is one of the positions that is most stressful… but~… having said that, so far, so good… a few of the members have been helpful… assisting me even when I don’t ask…
Apart from that… (back to the office front)… after-work activities have been interesting… one of my colleagues asked if I was willing to play futsal for our Deputy Governor (DG) in the Inter-DG Games… now, seeing that I do kick some with the boys for fun… I thought "Why not?"… since we were short of people… so we trained… and we played… and our DG’s team A (I was in Team B) emerged champions… But that’s one part of the story… the other part is… I heard that during the championships, the organisers were gonna shortlist a few girls to represent the Bank at the Inter-Central Bank Games (ICBG)… there wasn’t any pressure for me coz I wasn’t hopeful to make the cut since yeaaa I don’t play all that much, neither do I play all that well… but a few days after the championship, I got an email telling me that I made the cut… so the training continues… and another selection ensues to pick 7 out of the 15 shortlisted…
Training has been tough… but accepted… coz I admit… we lack the stamina… nevertheless I have been dutifully going for training every Monday, Wednesday and Friday evening… going through the drills… actually learning how to play… so there you have it… I swapped my dancing shoes (not that I’ve been doing any dancing anyway) for futsal boots… hehehe…
Besides the ICBG futsal… I am also now training for the Inter-DG bowling competition… the comp will be held in 2 weeks… but the training has been sparse… so I’m not too sure how I’m gonna go for that… doesn’t matter… it’s supposed to be a fun thing anyway…
Being involved in sports has made me a little bit more conscious now of what I eat… and how much I eat… so you can imagine the elated feeling I got when the coach tells me I’ve lost some weight…. yes~! Progress~…
So that’s the body bit of me… now (back to the car club front)… next Wednesday (6/6), a few of us will be sitting for the Radio Amateur Exam (RAE)… having left my books for quite a while… and what more physics books (7+ years since I last touched a physics textbook)… I had to revisit it coz the RAE questions are very much about amperes, Hertz, volts, ohm and what knots…
Why bother, you say? Well… am aiming to pass the exam, get my Amateur Radio license… and ride the waves to communicate globally at the least cost possible… and here’s a more noble purpose… to help out in the case of natural disasters… like during the floods that hit Johor Bahru earlier in the year… the (4×4) Hams actually went down to send aid to those in need… very noble indeed… so my agenda is to save the world~… hehehe…
So yes… exciting times ahead… will update again when I get the chance (ofiice has blocked Friendster… so I can only access when I’m at home… that is, IF I’m at home~)
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